Sicky Sick Sick

On Tuesday morning at the Javitts Convention Center in New York, I received a text from my mom to call her when I could. 

I go to a place with better reception, and find out that mom's been throwing up since midnight. She watched Charlotte while Naomi was at dance class yesterday, then brought them both to her house for dinner after dance class. She was also going to stop by and make sure they were doing homework etc after school Tuesday.

Well, it's too late at this point to bemoan Charlotte's exposure to the bug. What could have been done? If you aren't symptomatic, you don't know you are carrying. In the meantime, I texted Naomi and she said she was fine watching Charlotte until Dad and I got home at 8ish. Sean's job doesn't allow for him to get phone calls while on the call center floor, and I was going to be out of contact for 4 hours while flying home. I checked with Amy and Ashly to be "in case of emergency" contacts, and admonished Naomi to make sure Charlotte practiced piano and worked on her math homework.

While waiting for our plane, we speculated if we'd be able to land alright. I already saw on news that morning that Salt Lake was going to have 6.5 inches of snow that day. Thankfully, we landed a bit behind schedule and I drove myself and my coworker home. I'm thankful for my 4-wheel drive! The roads weren't well-plowed yet, and there were a half dozen spin offs we passed on the way home. I drive slow in the snow...because I don't like the sensation of spinning 360s out of control. I finally got home at 9:30, and climbed into bed an hour later.

At 4am, Charlotte comes into my room and says her stomach hurts. I'm still so exhausted, I just deposit her in front of the TV with a pillow, a blanket, a Sprite, the barf bowl and some cartoons, and I go back to bed. At 4:25am, she comes back to tell me her tummy still hurts and the TV isn't taking her mind off it, so I heat up a bean bag for her stomach. I crawl back into bed, and my alarm goes off 10 minutes later. After I get out of the shower, Charlotte knocks on the bathroom door.

"Mom, I have some good news and some bad news. Which one do you want first?"

Fairly certain what's coming next, I tell her to tell me both. "Well the bad news is I threw up. The good news is my tummy doesn't hurt as much."

I clean up the mess, tuck her into her blanket and tell her I've got to go to work and close out the orders from our trip. I promise to get back home before Dad needs to leave for work, and I finish getting ready to go.

Gordon is a cheerful guy this morning. Those of us who worked for him for so long know this is his absolute least favorite time of the year. The only time that comes close to the low sales of December is August. Our two worst months, and December is almost 40% lower than August. We get to hear about "brain dead people" and "the family time suck" of the holidays. On top of the poor sales, it's the time of the year when he prepares for his annual product Update lecture. It's a huge project, that always gets him wound up until its finished. He comes in commenting how a co-worker is going to be gone all day, and how he is going to talk to us all at staff meeting. We should never be gone after he's been gone on such a long trip like the one we were just on. I reminded him that the email my coworker sent everyone told us she had a doctor appointment and would be in by noon. Then, I had to tell him that I was going to be leaving early, because Charlotte was sick and Sean had to go to work at 11.

That went over fairly well.

Then another coworker called in sick. And another called in to say she was on her way but running late because of the bad roads. Considering there is only 7 of us working in the office...

I drive home, narrowly missing a fishtailing idiot in a pick-up who doesn't know ice and rear-wheel drive means rapid braking and accelerating is not a great combination. I meant to bring home Gordon's article that needed its references added onto it before submission. It's a massive chore, and I only made it 25% done before I had to leave. But, I left the stack of papers on the counter by the time clock. By the time I realized my mistake, there was no time to turn back. And there was no way I could drive 40 minutes with a puking child to go to Provo and then back home.

At home, Charlotte was still not doing so great. Sean shares she threw up a few more times and she asked for Zofran - the anti-nausea drug they give her for chemo. She threw up once more for me, and I called the oncology department just to confirm when the doctors would want me to call. If she wasn't holding down liquids, they wanted me to call, and if she ran a fever above 101, they wanted a call. Since there was no fever, I sat next to Charlotte and we dozed in front of cartoons. A loud noise roused us both from our snoozing. Charlotte had kicked off her blanket and her shirt had risen above her belly. Her hand lay on her stomach like it pained her. She sat up and crawled to my side of the couch. "Can I lay on you?" and she leans her forehead against my cheek. My stomach sank. She felt hot. I took her temperature and it was 101.8. I called the oncology department for a second time today, and they told me to bring her up to the clinic. It was 2:00, and they said their cut off was 3:30. After 3:30, they have the patients go to the ER instead.

So Charlotte was stuffed into her coat and boots, pjs underneath, put some numbing cream on her port, and we headed up to Primary Childrens. We got there 10 minutes before the cut off. Thankfully, the roads had cleared significantly since this morning. The drive up perked up Charlotte. She chatted like a magpie from the backseat. All I could think was that we would get all that way, and her fever would be gone, and the doctors would be like, "Just another Crazy Mom".

It turns out, when Charlotte was checked into the clinic, she was still running a 100-degree fever. Since we called ahead, her medicine only took 15 minutes to arrive. Usually, it takes at least an hour for the pharmacy to deliver the medication. Her blood cultured, and she was given a giant dose of IV antibiotics and some IV liquids. It took about an hour and a half. By the end of the appointment, her fever went up again, so she was given Tylenol. We aren't supposed to use Tylenol without permission from a doctor, as it can mask a fever. The reason I had to bring Charlotte up to the hospital is that they are very concerned that any cancer kid who has a port may develop an infection. Since a port infection can be deadly, any fever above 100.4 that lasts for more than an hour, or immediately for a fever of 101 means I call and go to the hospital. They do a blood draw and culture the blood to see if she has something going on with her port. Today's blood culture didn't show anything they were concerned with, and her ANC levels were 2300 (saying her immune system is pretty strong).

Before we left, the doctor told me if her fever wasn't gone by tomorrow afternoon, to call and they'd want to see her again tomorrow to make sure something hasn't developed between today and tomorrow. Charlotte and I head home in time with the 5 o'clock traffic. We dropped off her prescription at Walgreens, filled up my gas tank, dropped by Wendy's to get Naomi and I dinner, and Charly a baked potato, because she decided she was hungry. Then we picked up Naomi from her dance class and I am DONE! Pooped!

I'm so thankful this happened today, instead of yesterday, with the snowstorm and me out of town. I'm so thankful Charly has kept her baked potato down for over an hour, and I'm so thankful for my pajamas. I'm going to keep her home again from school tomorrow and keep an eye on her. I'll still have to run to work for 3 hours, to get that stupid article sorted out, but it'll be manageable.